Comments on: Psycho-Cybernetics Part 22 of 30: Capriati and Poise http://lfp-blog.com/dr-lams-blog/psycho-cybernetics/psycho-cybernetics-part-22-of-30-capriati-and-poise/ Just another WordPress weblog Thu, 18 Aug 2011 22:56:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: dr. lam http://lfp-blog.com/dr-lams-blog/psycho-cybernetics/psycho-cybernetics-part-22-of-30-capriati-and-poise/comment-page-1/#comment-3582 dr. lam Fri, 12 Jun 2009 02:41:53 +0000 http://www.lamfacialplastics.com/lfp-blog/?p=1622#comment-3582 more blog buddies!!!! more blog buddies!!!!

]]> By: Heather :) http://lfp-blog.com/dr-lams-blog/psycho-cybernetics/psycho-cybernetics-part-22-of-30-capriati-and-poise/comment-page-1/#comment-3583 Heather :) Fri, 12 Jun 2009 02:23:36 +0000 http://www.lamfacialplastics.com/lfp-blog/?p=1622#comment-3583 That is a very good point, Will. I never thought of it like that but very true! Thanks for sharing! Glad that there are new blog buddies here! :) That is a very good point, Will. I never thought of it like that but very true! Thanks for sharing! Glad that there are new blog buddies here! :)

]]> By: dr. lam http://lfp-blog.com/dr-lams-blog/psycho-cybernetics/psycho-cybernetics-part-22-of-30-capriati-and-poise/comment-page-1/#comment-3587 dr. lam Thu, 11 Jun 2009 03:44:46 +0000 http://www.lamfacialplastics.com/lfp-blog/?p=1622#comment-3587 hi will, first i can't tell you how excited i am to see you on here and commenting. thanks for expressing your honest emotions here. love your honesty! hope all is well. best wishes, sam hi will,
first i can’t tell you how excited i am to see you on here and commenting. thanks for expressing your honest emotions here. love your honesty! hope all is well.
best wishes,
sam

]]> By: Will Fairchild http://lfp-blog.com/dr-lams-blog/psycho-cybernetics/psycho-cybernetics-part-22-of-30-capriati-and-poise/comment-page-1/#comment-3586 Will Fairchild Thu, 11 Jun 2009 03:42:09 +0000 http://www.lamfacialplastics.com/lfp-blog/?p=1622#comment-3586 Dr. Sam, a good read. Learning that other people are not inherently that interested in me was a turning point for release of fear and tension in many settings. Actually, I think I was quite conceited by thinking people actually cared about my trivial actions that worried me. Thanks for the blogs -- I really enjoy them. Will Dr. Sam, a good read. Learning that other people are not inherently that interested in me was a turning point for release of fear and tension in many settings. Actually, I think I was quite conceited by thinking people actually cared about my trivial actions that worried me.

Thanks for the blogs — I really enjoy them.

Will

]]> By: dr. lam http://lfp-blog.com/dr-lams-blog/psycho-cybernetics/psycho-cybernetics-part-22-of-30-capriati-and-poise/comment-page-1/#comment-3585 dr. lam Thu, 11 Jun 2009 03:36:02 +0000 http://www.lamfacialplastics.com/lfp-blog/?p=1622#comment-3585 thanks heather. i think the contradiction is absolutely possible. being expressive, open, caring does not make one not thoughtful or deliberate in one's actions and words. beautiful thinking and insight. thanks again for the great comments...that are very thoughtful too! thanks heather. i think the contradiction is absolutely possible. being expressive, open, caring does not make one not thoughtful or deliberate in one’s actions and words. beautiful thinking and insight. thanks again for the great comments…that are very thoughtful too!

]]> By: Heather :) http://lfp-blog.com/dr-lams-blog/psycho-cybernetics/psycho-cybernetics-part-22-of-30-capriati-and-poise/comment-page-1/#comment-3584 Heather :) Thu, 11 Jun 2009 03:32:20 +0000 http://www.lamfacialplastics.com/lfp-blog/?p=1622#comment-3584 Dr. Lam, these are great blog posts! I’m glad you brought this up. Whenever I start to worry about what everyone else thinks, I just ask myself rather I would notice someone else doing the same thing I am doing, and I typically find that I wouldn’t think anything of it, which then leads me to realize that it also doesn’t matter what other people think. Of course, it is always good to consider other people’s advice or input, but worrying about what others think or what we think they think really can paralyze someone from being able to live. Knowing this usually helps me feel comfortable being myself without all the needless worries of trying to conform to a standard way of acting, although I like to be considerate of others at the same time just that I am not being controlled by a fear of what others think. I really like your example of Jennifer Capriati…about the creative mechanism being stifled and also the potential to do anything great. That was very profound. Excellent! Dr. Lam, these are great blog posts!

I’m glad you brought this up.
Whenever I start to worry about what everyone else thinks, I just ask myself rather I would notice someone else doing the same thing I am doing, and I typically find that I wouldn’t think anything of it, which then leads me to realize that it also doesn’t matter what other people think. Of course, it is always good to consider other people’s advice or input, but worrying about what others think or what we think they think really can paralyze someone from being able to live. Knowing this usually helps me feel comfortable being myself without all the needless worries of trying to conform to a standard way of acting, although I like to be considerate of others at the same time just that I am not being controlled by a fear of what others think.

I really like your example of Jennifer Capriati…about the creative mechanism being stifled and also the potential to do anything great. That was very profound. Excellent!

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