My Travels in Asia: Remembering Seoul (Part 3 of 5)
December 3, 2008 by dr. lam · Leave a Comment
The greatest airports in my opinion are in Asia: Pudong (Shanghai), Incheon (Seoul), and Hong Kong. There is nothing like these wonderful ports of entry into a new city. Incheon is one of the best and rivals Shanghai’s Pudong. I have travelled twice to Seoul, once for an extended several weeks during the 5-month trip to Asia and the second time for a week in 2004 to lecture, operate, and actually recover from a flu given the incredibly arduous hours I spent that week only to feel that my self-pity was unfathomable when I stood in line at LAX immediately behind the brave young girl, Bethany Hamilton, who had just lost her left arm to a shark attack a few months before.
Seoul is a complicated city. It bears vestiges of a colonial Japanese past with an imperial palace rebuilt to stucco over that legacy. It shows the strain of a city rapidly industrializing under the shadow of a totalitarian regime a stone’s throw away (with the discovered secret of multiple carved tunnels that the north covertly created to lead to rapid deployment of military southward at a blink.) For cosmetic surgery in Asia, it represents the height of both academic and clinical accomplishments, that have influenced my thinking and practice. It is also filled with warm and inviting individuals with whom I have bonded for life.
I wanted to tell the story of a good friend of whom I am very proud. Dr. Kim was recommended to me by Dr. Shu in Japan for me to visit and to observe. When I first visited him, he practiced out of a small, grayish clinic, and I remember very fondly that one night he wanted to take me out to an “expensive dinner” so he picked Bennigan’s. I informed him that I would rather dine on local fare, to which he first reacted with a puzzled expression that slowly gave way to understanding of sorts. Upon my return 2 years later, he had moved into a lavish new clinic and surgery center in neighboring Bucheon with a lecture hall and had been training fellows and international visitors. In fact, he even translated my book into Korean and got it published. I was wondering about the impetus behind his meteoric transformation. His wife confided in me that I had really changed his life by having him think big and getting him excited again about his work by publishing him in international journals. She mentioned that he had been suffering from ulcers and that his stomach conditions had since dissipated. I was thrilled that my initial short visit would have such a profound and lasting impact.
I remember that when I returned in ‘04 to lecture and to operate, we drove up to the Hilton hotel where the lecture series was being given. Dr. Kim had plastered on the side of the hotel my clinic’s name. I really had done no work to organize the meeting but that was what he thought of me and he had me sign all of the program certificates as co-president. Another great surgeon, Dr. Jung, invited me to go to lecture next year 2009 in China but I simply cannot make these long trips away from my practice. I loved training with Dr. Jung and had the good fortune to invite him as a special lecturer in Washington D.C. for a course for which I was the director last year dedicated to the Asian face. I really cherish Drs. Kim and Jung for their convivial hospitality, genuine goodheartedness, and brilliant surgical acumen. They are the core of my remembrance of Seoul and to me are the embodiment of Seoul. Tomorrow we get Shanghai’d to Shanghai.